Oct 17, - The singer, 38, admitted recently that she and her husband of 11 years, Carey Hart, have gone an entire year without having sex. Who would. Mar 10, - — the ManWhen the Cause of a Sexless Relationship Is — Surprise! — the Man. There are varying definitions of a sexless marriage or sexless relationship: no sex in the past year, no sex in the past six months or sex 10 or fewer times a year. Sex 10 times a year would have been 10 times more than what I was having.